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Mira Nair

Indian American filmmaker (born 1957)

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Nair began her career making documentaries, but went on to make feature films. She usually directs independent drama films, which she also produces through her company Mirabai Films, and her films often touch on political themes or controversial topics. She made her feature-length directorial debut with Salaam Bombay! (1988), which received Academy Award, BAFTA Award, and Golden Globe Award nominations. Her next film, Mississippi Masala (1991), was nominated for the Independent Spirit Award for Best Film.

Nair has directed films such as Monsoon Wedding (2001), Vanity Fair (2004), The Namesake (2006), and Queen of Katwe (2016). Monsoon Wedding made her the first female director to win the Golden Lion at the Venice Film Festival, was nominated for the BAFTA Award for Best International Feature Film, and held the record for the highest-grossing Indian film in North America until 2017.

Born and raised in India, Nair moved to the U.S. to attend Harvard University, and was married to photographer Mitch Epstein from the early to late 1980s. She then lived for a few years in Uganda with her second husband, political scientist Mahmood Mamdani, but they later returned to the United States. Their son, Zohran Mamdani, has served as Mayor of New York City since 2026.

Early life and education

Mira Nair was born on 15 October 1957 in Rourkela, in Orissa, India, the daughter of social worker Praveen Nair and Indian Administrative Service officer Amrit Lal Nair. She has two older brothers named Vikram and Gautam. Nair's family are Punjabi Hindus from Delhi. The family name "Nayyar" was changed by her grandfather, although one of her uncles continues to use it.

Nair grew up in a "colonial-style bungalow, with [a] spacious veranda and terracotta-tiled floor''. Her father, Amrit, was a remote character, who was "not much fun", and her parents separated around 1990 after years of tension and fighting. Nair appreciated Amrit's love of Persian poetry and song, but he drove his children hard, insisting that they "spend their time usefully". Mira's father also argued frequently with her brothers, Vikram and Gautam. Nair felt that she was not seen as important as her brothers because she was a girl, and so did not have to deal with the same heavy pressure or constant watching they had to face from their father. She believed being overlooked gave her the quiet space to get on with the things she liked doing without anyone constantly telling her what to do. She looks at that lack of attention as a lucky break that let her follow her own path. Praveen had a strong influence on the young Nair, particularly her independence, confidence, fearlessness, and social awareness. Nair did not directly challenge her father in the home, but in her early documentary films she attacked many of his attitudes, such as the hypocrisy of male ideas about "virtue" in India Cabaret (1985), and the Indian custom by which female fetuses were often aborted, in Children of Desired Sex (1987).

Nair first attended Ispat English Medium School in Rourkela, from ages 7 to 10, between 1964 and 1967. Her family moved to Bhubaneswar, where she lived until age 18. She attended Loreto Convent, Tara Hall in Kaithu, Shimla from 1971 to 1974 where she developed a fondness for the English literature, particularly, Vanity Fair, by William Makepeace Thackeray, which she would adapt into a film one day. In her teens, she taught herself to type and play the sitar; painted; wrote poetry and performed in local theatre, and was also an outstanding student.

She studied at Miranda House- a constituent college for women at Delhi University, where she majored in sociology. While at university, she belonged to an amateur drama company in Delhi. There she worked with Indian theatre director Barry John. At university she performed in Equus, Habeas Corpus, and as Cleopatra in Shakespeare's Antony and Cleopatra. She also did political street theatre in Calcutta with the Bengali playwright Badal Sircar. After turning down the offer of a full scholarship to Cambridge University in England, (later saying "I had a chip on my shoulder about the Brits") in 1976, she moved to the US as a nineteen-year-old to attend Harvard University on a scholarship. She enjoyed acting and continued to perform throughout her first year at Harvard. Her friend and future collaborator Sooni Taraporevala was a classmate at Harvard.

Heading to New York City during the summer break of her first year, she worked with American dramatist Joseph Chaikin and met Judith Malina and Julian Beck, who founded The Living Theatre.

Upon returning to Harvard, she took a summer course in photography. She then cross-registered for a film class with Richard Leacock at MIT. This class inspired Nair to focus on documentary filmmaking in the Department of Visual and Environmental Studies at Harvard (now called the Department of Art, Film, and Visual Studies). She graduated in 1979.

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