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Adjacency pairs

Example of conversational turn-taking in linguistics

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Usage

Adjacency pairs are most commonly found in what Schegloff and Sacks described as a "single conversation," a unit of communication in which a single person speaks and a second person replies to the first speaker's utterance. While the turn-taking mechanism of single conversation uses silence to indicate that the next speaker's turn may begin, adjacency pairs are used to show that both speakers are finished with the conversation and that the ensuing silence does not require either of the speakers to take another turn.

The prevalent use of adjacency pairs in greetings and terminal exchanges demonstrate the adjacency pair's primary function of being an organizational unit of conversation. Without the signal and expected response of the two utterances, the silence of one speaker may be never filled by the second speaker, or filled incorrectly. Adjacency pairs also convey politeness and a willingness from one speaker to acknowledge the feelings of the second speaker. For example, in English the greeting "How are you?" is mostly commonly followed by "I'm doing well," thus creating an adjacency pair that demonstrates a polite interest from one speaker and a reciprocal acknowledgment of that interest from the other. Failure to reply politely to the greeting "How are you?" is usually a sign of bad manners or an unwillingness to converse, thus showing how an adjacency pair is necessary to establish a working rapport between two speakers.

Examples of pairs

Many actions in conversation are accomplished through established adjacency pairs, examples of which include:

  • call/beckon → response
"Waiter!" → "Yes, sir"
  • complaint → excuse/remedy
"It's awfully cold in here" → "Oh, sorry, I'll close the window"
  • compliment → acceptance/refusal
"I really like your new haircut!!" → "Oh, thanks"
  • degreeting → degreeting response
"See you!" → "Yeah, see you later!"
  • inform → acknowledge
"Your phone is over there" → "I know"
  • greeting → greeting response
"Hiya!" → "Oh, hi!"
  • offer → acceptance/rejection
"Would you like to visit the museum with me this evening?" → "I'd love to!"
  • question → answer
"What does this big red button do?" → "It causes two-thirds of the universe to implode"
  • request → acceptance/rejection
"Is it OK if I borrow this book?" → "I'd rather you didn't, it's due back at the library tomorrow"

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