Bernice Rubens

Personal life

Bernice Ruth Reuben was born in Splott, Cardiff, Wales, on 26 July 1923 (though her obituary in The Independent notes that "she later said 1928", and several sources report her birth date as 26 July 1928), the third of four children of Eli Reuben and his wife Dorothy, née Cohen. Her father was a Lithuanian Jew who, at the age of 16, left mainland Europe in 1900 in the hope of starting a new life in New York City. Due to being swindled by a ticket tout, he never reached the United States, his passage taking him no further than Cardiff. He decided to stay in Wales, and there he met and married Dorothy Cohen, whose Polish Jewish family had also emigrated to Cardiff.

Bernice was one of four children and came from a musical family, both her brothers, Harold and Cyril, becoming well-known classical musicians. Her sister Beryl was a prestigious viola and violin teacher. Harold was forced to quit playing through illness, but Cyril (1926-1996) became a violinist in the London Symphony Orchestra. Bernice failed to follow in her family's musical tradition, though she would later learn the cello. She was educated at Cardiff High School for Girls and later read English at the University of Wales, Cardiff, where she was awarded her BA degree in 1947.

She married Rudolf Nassauer, a wine merchant who also wrote poetry and fiction. They had two daughters, Rebecca and Sharon. From 1950 to 1955, Rubens taught at a grammar school in Birmingham, before moving on to the film industry, where she made documentaries. In the 1960s, the poet Jon Silkin rented the attic storey of their London house and sublet rooms to David Mercer, later a prolific West End and TV playwright, and Malcolm Ross-Macdonald, later an equally prolific writer of historical novels.

A chain smoker all her life, Rubens began to suffer from ill-health in the late 1990s. She died in the Royal Free Hospital, London, from stroke combined with chronic bronchitis, "a classic illness of smokers", on 13 October 2004, aged 81 (generally reported as 76).