Lably
Skip to content

Civil inattention

Behaviors which allow strangers to maintain social order in crowded public spaces

  • 2 min read
  • 3 chapters

Related on Lably

Through Curiosity, Intention and Ritual

Civil inattention is a strategy to overcome the challenges of urban life, in particular living in close proximity to "others", all the while showing indifferences. Such behaviors may lead to alienation, thinking of strangers as objects. However, urban life also expands individual freedom. Rural or tribal culture is based upon a communal identity with kinship and close social ties and little or no interaction with strangers.

Positive functions

Civil inattention is required to avoid the otherwise problematic encounters between strangers in an urban culture, to behave with courtesy while maintaining strangeness. Situations often studied are those in which strangers must share a public space in closer proximity than normal, as when using mass transportation, riding an elevator, or in a waiting room. Rather than either ignoring or staring at others, civil inattention involves the unobtrusive and peaceful scanning of others to allow for neutral interaction. The typical behaviors observed to maintain strangeness include not staring or talking.

Seemingly (though not in reality) effortless, such civility is a way of shielding others from personal claims in public.

Sign in to keep reading

2 more chapters are free with a Lably account.

More in Psychology