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Simone de Beauvoir

French philosopher, social theorist and activist (1908–1986)

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French philosopher-writer Jean Paul Sartre and writer Simone De Beauvoir arriving in Israel and welcomed by Avraham Shlonsky and Leah Goldberg at Lod airport (14/03/1967).
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Beauvoir wrote novels, essays, short stories, biographies, autobiographies, and monographs on philosophy, politics, and social issues. She was best known for her "trailblazing work in feminist philosophy", The Second Sex (1949), a detailed analysis of women's oppression and a foundational tract of contemporary feminism. She was also known for her novels, the most famous of which were She Came to Stay (1943) and The Mandarins (1954).

Her most enduring contribution to literature is her memoirs, notably the first volume, Mémoires d'une jeune fille rangée (1958). She received the 1954 Prix Goncourt, the 1975 Jerusalem Prize, and the 1978 Austrian State Prize for European Literature. She was also nominated for the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1961, 1969 and 1973. In contemporary times, Beauvoir has been criticized for having hurtful romantic and sexual relationships with three of her former students, two of whom also had relationships with Sartre.

Biography

Early years

Beauvoir was born on 9 January 1908 in Montparnasse in the 6th arrondissement in a quality but poorly furnished apartment. Beauvoir's family was historically bourgeois though her aristocratic ancestor was given the title in 1786 and was killed during the revolution in 1790. Her parents were Georges Bertrand de Beauvoir, initially a lawyer but who aspired to be an actor, and Françoise Beauvoir (née Brasseur), a wealthy banker's daughter and devout Catholic. The family expected a dowry, but after Françoise's father was jailed, the promised dowry was not available.

As her parents were often absent, Simone was primarily raised by her nanny Louise. Louise had a strained relationship with Françoise Beauvoir. Simone also had a sister, Hélène, who was born on 6 June 1910. Beauvoir was intellectually precocious, fueled by her father's encouragement; he reportedly would boast,

"Simone has a man's brain; she thinks like a man; she is a man."

— Françoise Beauvoir (née Brasseur), in Caroline Moorehead, A talk with Simone de Beauvoir, The New York Times

Writing of her youth in Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter, she said:

...my father's individualism and pagan ethical standards were in complete contrast to the rigidly moral conventionalism of my mother's teaching. This disequilibrium, which made my life a kind of endless disputation, is the main reason why I became an intellectual.

— Simone de Beauvoir, Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter, Book One, pg. 41

In the onset of World War I and inflation, and her father's turns at the front then the Ministry of War, the family's finances shrank significantly. Her father refused to return to law and likely became physically abusive to Françoise. He then began working for her mother's formerly disgraced father in a shoe factory, but he was an unreliable worker and the factory shuttered after the way. A family member offered him a role in newspaper advertising sales, but he also lost that job. In 1919, the family moved to a small fifth floor apartment with no central heating, running water, or bathroom.

Education

As a young child, Beauvoir only attended school two days per week, starting at 5, and was otherwise educated by her mother. As a teenager, Beauvoir pursued post-secondary education after completing her high school years at Cours Desir. After passing baccalaureate exams in mathematics and philosophy at the age of seventeen in 1925, she studied mathematics at the Institut Catholique de Paris and literature/languages at the Institut Sainte-Marie.

Although not officially enrolled, she sat in on courses at the École Normale Supérieure in preparation for the agrégation in philosophy, a highly competitive postgraduate examination that serves as a national ranking of students. It was while studying for it that she met École Normale students Jean-Paul Sartre, Paul Nizan, and René Maheu (who gave her the lasting nickname "Castor", or "Beaver"). She studied philosophy at the Sorbonne and after completing her degree in 1928, wrote her Diplôme d'études supérieures spécialisées (roughly equivalent to an M.A. thesis) on Leibniz for Léon Brunschvicg in 1929 (the topic was "Le concept chez Leibniz" ["The Concept in Leibniz"]). In 1929, the jury for the agrégation narrowly awarded Sartre first place and gave second to Beauvoir. She was 21 years old which made her the youngest person to ever pass the exam and the eighth woman ever to do so. Additionally, Beauvoir finished an exam for the certificate of "General Philosophy and Logic" second to Simone Weil and before Maurice Merleau-Ponty. Her success as the eighth woman to pass the agrégation solidified her economic independence.

During this period Beauvoir maintained close friendships with her sister Helene, her friend Zara, and her cousin Jacques, for whom she had romantic interest. Though Jaques was often hot and cold towards her, he did begin a courtship with Beauvoir talking to her about authors, banned books, visiting art galleries, and musical performances. After Jacques failed his exams, he became more distant which Beauvoir assumed was a reflection of her own flaws Eventually, her mother forbade their courtship

Religious upbringing

Beauvoir was raised Catholic and educated in convent schools. At age 7, she began taking communion three times a week. She was deeply religious and intended to become a nun. At age 14, Beauvoir began to question her faith and would go on to abandon religion in her teens. She remained an atheist for the rest of her life. To explain her atheist beliefs, Beauvoir stated,

"Faith allows an evasion of those difficulties which the atheist confronts honestly. And to crown all, the believer derives a sense of great superiority from this very cowardice itself."

— Simone Bertrand de Beauvoir, All Said and Done

Young Adulthood

Upon a visit to Lourdes at age eighteen Beauvoir felt disgust at the intellectual and sentimental, and felt her own sorrows could not compare to the suffering of the sick. Though she later updated this thought stating in her diaries that she should not be ashamed of living, and that as she has been given life it is her duty to live in the best possible way, and anything else is moral suicide.

Simone took a volunteer teaching position, in part to escape her mother's control, making up extra volunteer days so she could be allowed to walk Paris or watch her sister's art, and then worked part-time teaching for extra money to spend in Paris. Beauvoir began to expand her friendships, though friends noted she was prudish and often scandalized. She would soon expand her friendship with Merleau-Ponty, and wrote an ethical and love-focused thesis under the direction of Jean Baruzi. It was also at this time that she would become an atheist, stating she could now feel the terrible significant of the word alone. Merleau-Ponty and Zara would court and were kept apart by their parents. When they eventually decided to marry, Zara grew ill and died, with both spiritualizing their suffering, instead of blaming their parents for keeping them apart, which Beavour did not like. Beauvoir would eventually write a novel on Zara and Marleau-Ponty's relationship in Inseparable, published posthumously.

Introduction to Jean-Paul Sartre

In 1929 Beauvoir became friends and possibly lovers with René Maheau, who was friends with Sartre. Sartre heard of Beauvoir's thesis and sent her a painting of Leibniz bathing with mermaids. Beauvoir initially resisted meeting him, a known womanizer, and sent her sister Helene to meet him instead. Beauvoir and Sartre later met a study group, and Sartre sent her presents including a Japanese painting and porcelain which Beauvoir did not like. Maheau failed to receive one the twenty-six available teaching posts and left Paris, where Beauvoir became closer to Sartre, through notably conflicted between her feelings between Sartre, Jacques, and Maheu, which she later downplayed in her public diaries.

In October 1929, Jean-Paul Sartre and Beauvoir became a couple for the next 51 years, until his death in 1980. After they were confronted by her father, Sartre asked her to marry him on a provisional basis. One day while they were sitting on a bench outside the Louvre, he said, "Let's sign a two-year lease". Though Beauvoir wrote, "Marriage was impossible. I had no dowry", scholars point out that her ideal relationships described in The Second Sex and elsewhere bore little resemblance to the marriage standards of the day.

I think marriage is a very alienating institution, for men as well as for women. I think it's a very dangerous institution—dangerous for men, who find themselves trapped, saddled with a wife and children to support; dangerous for women, who aren't financially independent and end up by depending on men who can throw them out when they are 40; and very dangerous for children, because their parents vent all their frustrations and mutual hatred on them. The very words 'conjugal rights' are dreadful. Any institution which solders one person to another, obliging people to sleep together who no longer want to is a bad one.

Instead, she and Sartre entered into a lifelong "soul partnership", which was sexual but not exclusive, nor did it involve living together. She chose never to marry and never had children. This gave her the time to advance her education and engage in political causes, write and teach, and take lovers.

Teaching Period

After the completion of her studies, Beauvoir saw teaching as an opportunity to work towards earning her own living. She worked with Maurice Merleau-Ponty and Claude Lévi-Strauss, when all three completed their practice teaching requirements at the same secondary school. From 1929 through 1943, Beauvoir taught at the lycée level until she could support herself solely on the earnings of her writings. She taught at the Lycée Montgrand (Marseille), the Lycée Jeanne-d'Arc (Rouen), and the Lycée Molière (Paris) (1936–39).

During the trial of Robert Brasillach in 1945, Beauvoir was among a small number of prominent intellectuals advocating for his execution for the 'intellectual crimes' of supporting Fascism and the genocide of Jewish people. She defended this decision in her 1946 essay "An Eye for an Eye".

Relationships with former students

Beauvoir was bisexual, and her relationships with young women are controversial. Throughout the 1930s and 40s, Beauvoir maintained three relationships with younger women, including Olga Kosakiewicz, Natalie Sorokin, and Bianca Lamblin (originally Bianca Bienenfeld). Beauvoir met Olga when she was nineteen and Beauvoir twenty-seven and eventually, she had relationships with both Beauvoir and Sartre, though according to Beauvoir, Olga would not have sex with Sartre. At this time Beauvoir would also begin what became a ten-year relationship with Jacques-Laurent Bost, which she hid from her memoirs. While the relationship with Olga ended, Olga would remain friends with Beauvoir through the 1970s. Bost would go on to court and marry Olga which made Beauvoir jealous. Beauvoir stated her only sensual life was with Bost, though she hid this from both Olga and Jacques-Laurent. Beauvoir would also continue years of dishonesty lying and hiding her relationship with Bost from Olga.

Beauvoir met Bianca Lamblin when she was sixteen, and after the year ended and she was no longer a pupil Beauvoir travelled to Morvan on a hiking trip with Bianca. and continued a relationship so several years seeing her several times a week as she studied at the Sorbonne. In 1938, Simone introduced Bianca to Sartre, and she was impressed by him and also began a relationship with him. When Sartre was called to the war, Beauvoir began to criticize the much younger Bianca as increasingly controlling and entitled. Bianca opposed Beauvoir sending money to her sister, and wanted her to end her relationships with other. When Beauvoir went to visit Bianca, whose Jewish family fled Paris, Bianca stated her mother had intercepted a letter between them. Beauvoir began to express regret about her sexual relationship with Bianca, which she said took advantage of her body and that it was boorish.

Beauvoir then taught Natalie Sorokin, the same age as Bianca, and was initially opposed to any sexual relationship. Sorkin told Beauvoir she loved her, and Beauvoir said "if she was free" she would pursue it. Sorkin's mother filed a complaint against Beauvoir in 1941 which resulted in a one and a half yearlong investigation. They could not confirm a relationship but did confirm Beauvoir had suspicious unmarried living arrangements and taught homosexual authors. Her license was reinstated in 1945, but she would not teach again dedicating herself fulltime to writing. Beauvoir framed the incident as Sorkin's mother being angry that she was unable to convince Sorkin to leave a poor man she was interested in. Beauvoir would then go on to work for Radio Vichy, a non-collaborator radio station working on music from the middle ages. She also used this time to write She Came to Stay and the Blood of Others.

Near the same Beauvoir met Sorokin, Sartre stated he wanted to end his relationship with Bianca, and Beauvoir stated they could not ignore "how used" Bianca was. After Sartre ended his relationship with Bianca, Beauvoir stated they could not ignore how they treated people was unacceptable, and Bianca soon had a mental breakdown. Beauvoir wrote to Sartre stating that it was unacceptable how much they made her suffer and Sartre stated he liked her draft novel "because of its absence of thought". Bianca's family informed Beauvoir that she should flee Paris with Bianca's family, after it became clear the Paris would fall to the Nazis. Beauvoir would instead go to a friend's house near Laval, later returning to Paris. Beauvoir told Bianca they should see each other less, which made Bianca "desperate beyond words" because of her attachment to Beauvoir, and Bianca began a relationship with one of Sartre's students who she would soon marry, making her parents relived she would have a less Jewish name. After the war, Bianca would seek out Beauvoir, complaining of deep unhappiness and Bueavoir writing to Sartre in 1945 that they had caused her deep unhappiness and harmed her, with Bianca's psychologist, Jacques Lacan, agreeing.

Beauvoir promised to never publish details about Lamblin, but Slyvie published letters between Sartre and Beauvoir (Lettres à Sartre and Journal de Guerre) after Beauvoir's death, with Labmin simply given a pseudonym. In these letters, Bianca would read Sartre and Beauvoir's correspondence about her, published for the first time. Labmin felt she, Beauvoir, and Sartre would be a permanent love triangle and that before she met Sartre in 1938, she had only been friends with Beauvoir. The relationship would, per Lamblin, become romantic and sexual in 1939. Lamblin believed all parties knew she expected a loving threesome, though Beauvoir's own accounts are mixed. Lamblin states that Beauvoir encouraged Sartre to break up with her, which she only learned about in the published letters and offended her deeply destroying her image of the forty-year friendship they had shared. She, upon learning that she was given a pseudonym, stated she felt "nauseated and disgusted when [she] discovered the true personality of the woman, [she] had loved all [her] life". Lamblin also recounts being hurt when an American biography revealed her pseudonym and true identity, with a translation later published in French. Beauvoir and Lamblin had remained lifelong friends, with Labmin stated she trusted Beauvoir completely, and considered her innately honest but felt deceived upon the publishing of Journal de guerre. Labmin wrote in her book Mémoires d'une jeune fille dérangée (Memoirs of a deranged young girl, published in English under the title A Disgraceful Affair) as a response to reading the letters, which caused her to revoke her forgiveness of Beauvoir.

Beauvoir described in La Force de l'âge (The Prime of Life) a relationship of simple friendship with Sorokine (in the book referred to as "Lise Oblanoff"). However, both Sorokine and Lamblin—along with Olga Kosakiewicz—stated later that their relationships with Beauvoir had damaged them psychologically.

Life as a Public Intellectual

Beauvoir ended her teaching career, and began to live as a writer and public intellectual. From 1941 to 1946 Beauvoir held found the latest paper Les Temps Modernes and wrote some of her most important works, including novels The Blood of Others (1945) and All Men are Mortal (1946) and her first philosophical essay Pyrrhus et Cinéas (1944) followed by The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947). She began publishing parts of The Second Sex in Les Temps Modernes in 1949.

Post-war Beauvoir's work was increasingly famous in France and abroad, and she began travels including to North Africa to lecture and then in 1947 made a long trip to the United States where she met Sartre's lover Dolors Vanetti. While in America she met author Nelson Algren. Beauvoir met Algren in Chicago in 1947, while she was on a four-month "exploration" trip of the United States using various means of transport: automobile, train, and Greyhound. While in the United States, Beauvoir began writing letters on women's issues, giving lectures on a twenty-four lecture tour on ethics and writing, and landed in New York where she also became friends with Ellen and Richard Wright who introduced her to books on race in America. She would also meet Natalie Sorkin who had moved to the United States and Sorkin's husband She kept a detailed diary of the trip, which was published in France in 1948 with the title America Day by Day. She wrote to him across the Atlantic as "my beloved husband." Algren won the National Book Award for The Man with the Golden Arm in 1950, and in 1954, Beauvoir won France's most prestigious literary prize for The Mandarins, in which Algren is the character Lewis Brogan. Algren vociferously objected to their intimacy becoming public. Years after they separated, she was buried wearing his gift of a silver ring.

When Beauvoir visited Algren in Chicago, Art Shay took well-known nude and portrait photos of Beauvoir. Shay also wrote a play based on Algren, Beauvoir, and Sartre's triangular relationship. The play was stage read in 1999 in Chicago.

She lived with Claude Lanzmann from 1952 to 1959 in Montparnasse near her childhood home. In 1955 she published Les Temps Moderne in support of Algerian independence and three essays called Privileges which questioning how the privileged can question their situation, and stated the privileged number be not ignorant of hierarchies to address them. Beauvoir would later write a defense of Djamila Boupacha and helped set up a committee for her defense. This greatly angered many people, to the point that she received death threats and Sartre's home was bombed so anti-fascist students stayed at her apartment to protect her. In the 1950s she would run into her cousin Jacques who was a ruined alcoholic, whom she would send financial support.

In 1954, Beauvoir would win the Prix Goncourt for Les Mandarins. She celebrated privately with Satre, Olga, and Bost rejecting fanfare and publicity. Beauvoir was clear that this was a re-working of ideas she had before the met Sartre.

Autobiographical and travel writing

Beauvoir also wrote a four-volume autobiography, consisting of Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter, The Prime of Life, Force of Circumstance (sometimes published in two volumes in English translation: After the War and Hard Times), and All Said and Done. In 1964 Beauvoir published a novella-length autobiography, A Very Easy Death, covering the time she spent visiting her aging mother, who was dying of cancer. The novella brings up questions of ethical concerns with truth-telling in doctor-patient relationships.

Beauvoir wrote popular travel diaries, such as America Day by Day, about time spent in the United States. She published essays and fiction rigorously, especially throughout the 1950s and 1960s. Her 1955 travels in China were the basis of her 1957 travelogue The Long March, in which she praised the efforts of the Chinese communists to emancipate women. Beauvoir would soon critique her one work in The Long March.

In her travel writing, Beauvoir analyses labor struggle, gender politics, family, political economy, and the relations between custom, law, and freedom, typically through a materialist framework. In this way, her travel writing is also philosophical and political.

Biographical period and short stories

From 1958 to 1963, Beauvoir published her autobiography in three volumes, though a fourth volume would be released in 1974. Beauvoir would then write short stories including A Very Easy Death in 1964 acting a reflection on the last weeks of her mother's life, and The Woman Destroyed which, like some of her other later work, deals with ageing. In 1967-67 Beauvoir would publish, Misunderstanding in Moscow, coming at a time when she would revoke her former support for the Soviets due to freedoms concerns.

Meeting Sylvie Le Bon-de Beauvoir

Sylvie Le Bon-de Beauvoir and Simone de Beauvoir met in the 1960s, when Beauvoir was in her fifties, and Sylvie was nineteen. In 1980, Beauvoir, 72, legally adopted Sylvie, who was in her late thirties, by which point they had already been in an intimate relationship for decades. Although Beauvoir rejected the institution of marriage her entire life, this adoption was like a marriage for her. Some scholars argue that this adoption was not to secure a literary heir for Beauvoir but as a form of resistance to the bio-heteronormative family unit.

Political activism

In the 1970s, Beauvoir became active in France's women's liberation movement. She wrote and signed the Manifesto of the 343 in 1971, a manifesto that included a list of famous women who claimed to have had an abortion, then illegal in France. Signatories were diverse as Catherine Deneuve, Delphine Seyrig, and Beauvoir's sister Hélène. In 1974, abortion was legalized in France.

Beauvoir wrote The Coming of Age in 1970, which offered a difficult account of aging and associated oppression in western capitalism. In this work, Beauvoir provides similar points of The Second Sex to the elderly.

Beauvoir did not declare herself a feminist until 1972, and did so in an interview in Le Nouvel Observateur at which she point she joined other Marxist femists in founding the Questions Féministes journal.

When asked in a 1975 interview with Betty Friedan if she would support a minimum wage for women who do housework, Beauvoir answered: "No, we don't believe that any woman should have this choice. No woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one. It is a way of forcing women in a certain direction", further stating that motherhood "should be a choice, and not a result of conditioning".

In about 1976, Beauvoir and Sylvie Le Bon made a trip to New York City in the United States to visit Kate Millett on her farm.

In 1977, Beauvoir signed a petition along with other French intellectuals that supported the freeing of three arrested paedophiles. The petition explicitly addresses the 'Affaire de Versailles', where three adult men, Dejager (age 45), Gallien (age 43), and Burckhardt (age 39) had sexual relations with minors of both sexes aged 12–13.

She contributed the piece "Feminism – Alive, Well, and in Constant Danger" to the 1984 anthology Sisterhood Is Global: The International Women's Movement Anthology, edited by Robin Morgan.

Jean-Paul Sartre's death

Beauvoir clearly saw herself as someone tasked with preserving Sartre's legacy in his mental and physical decline, but also pushed back on him asking why he did not speak out for women the way he did for workers, blacks, and Jews

In 1981, she wrote La Cérémonie des adieux (A Farewell to Sartre), a painful account of Sartre's last years. In the opening of Adieux, Beauvoir notes that it is the only major published work of hers that Sartre did not read before its publication.

After Sartre died in 1980, Beauvoir published his letters to her with edits to spare the feelings of people in their circle who were still living. After Beauvoir's death, Sartre's adopted daughter and literary heir Arlette Elkaïm would not let many of Sartre's letters be published in unedited form. Most of Sartre's letters available today have Beauvoir's edits, which include a few omissions but mostly the use of pseudonyms. Beauvoir's adopted daughter and literary heir Sylvie Le Bon, unlike Elkaïm, published Beauvoir's unedited letters to both Sartre and Algren.

After Sartre's death, she published Adieu, accounting for Sartre's death, which was harshly received as many critiqued her for what they considered speaking for him (381). Many papers announcing his death, did not mention her, or only mentioned her as companion. Upon publishing the letters, Beauvoir damaged friendships with Olga and others who did not want to be shown in them.

Death

Beauvoir gave interviews towards the end of her life discussing her independence from Sartre, the damage their relationship caused to other parties, and Sartre's poor treatment of women.She also still engaged in writing, encouraging activism, and provided financial support to women's shelters and feminist publishers and writing prefaces to books she supported, the last of which was Mihloud. In 1982, François Mitterrand offered her the Legion of Honor, but she refused it. She also pushed for a new English translation of The Second Sex which better held to the truth of her Philosophy.

Beauvoir died of pneumonia on 14 April 1986 in Paris, aged 78. She is buried next to Sartre at the Montparnasse Cemetery in Paris. She was honoured as a figure at the forefront of the struggle for women's rights around the time of her death.

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