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Dyspareunia

Pain during sexual intercourse

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In people with affected female sex organs, pain may primarily affect the external surface of the genitalia (the vulva or vagina), or may be deeper in the pelvis from pressure against the cervix. Dyspareunia can be a pelvic floor dysfunction that is mis- or underdiagnosed. In people with male sex organs affected, factors such as the shape of a penis, the tension of foreskin, cysts, or infections may cause or contribute to dyspareunia. Dyspareunia can occur in the anus as anodyspareunia. Understanding the duration, location, and nature of the pain is important in diagnosing the causes.

In 2020, dyspareunia was estimated to affect 35% of women worldwide at some point in their lives. Numerous physical, psychological, and social or relationship factors can contribute to pain during sexual encounters. Often, multiple underlying causes contribute to the pain. The pain can be acquired or congenital. Symptoms of dyspareunia may also occur after menopause.

Diagnosis is typically by physical examination and medical history. In each case, underlying causes determine treatment. Many patients achieve relief when physical causes are identified and treated.

Signs and symptoms

Sexual penetration should not be painful. Dyspareunia caused by physical or emotional stressors can create chronic pain disorders that affect sexual health, such as vaginsmus, or it could be symptoms of underlying disease. If dyspareunia cannot be avoided with proper lubrication, slower pacing, and other healthy sexual partnership behaviors, a medical professional should be consulted to rule out disease.

Those who experience sexual pain during intercourse describe their pain in many ways. This reflects how many different and overlapping causes there are for dyspareunia. The location, nature, and time course of the pain help to understand potential causes and treatments.

Some patients have always experienced pain with intercourse from their very first attempt, while others begin to feel pain with intercourse after an injury, infection, even or cyclically with menstruation. Some describe superficial pain at the opening or surface of the genitalia when penetration is initiated. Others feel deeper pain in the vault of the vagina, rectum, or deep within the pelvis upon deeper penetration. Some feel pain in more than one place.

Pain may distract from feeling pleasure and excitement. Both vaginal lubrication and vaginal dilation decrease, and the anus becomes more vulnerable to anal fissures. When the vagina is dry and undilated, penetration then becomes more painful. Anal fissures make anal penetration even more painful and greatly increase risk of infections.

Fear of being in pain can make the discomfort worse. Pain may persist after the original source is removed, due to the learned expectation of pain. Sometimes, psychology and behavior can be signs of chronic dyspareunia. Fear, avoidance, and psychological distress around attempting intercourse can become large parts of the experience.

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