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Sexual dimorphism in human bonding

Biological differences between men and women in human relationships

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Research across psychology, neuroscience, anthropology, and evolutionary biology has documented various gender differences in human bonding behaviors and underlying neural mechanisms. These differences are understood to arise from complex interactions between biological factors (including hormones, brain structure, and evolutionary pressures), psychological development, and sociocultural influences. The nature and extent of interaction of innate biological features, environmental factors and learned social behaviors is an active area of scientific inquiry and debate. While population-level differences have been identified, substantial overlap exists between sexes, and individual variation within each sex is large relative to differences between sexes.

In neuroscience, research (often based on animal models, such as laboratory rats and the prairie vole) emphasizes the role of specific neuropeptides and neural circuits, such as those involving the hormones oxytocin (OT) and arginine vasopressin (AVP). Research suggests these neuropeptides and their receptors are differentially distributed and regulated in the male and female brain, leading to sex-specific effects on attachment, social reward, and protective behaviors.

Evolutionary context

From an evolutionary standpoint, bonding behaviors are thought to have emerged in the ancestral environment because they enhanced reproductive success through cooperative child-rearing, protection and resource sharing. In 1958, attachment theory was proposed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth as a way to understand the nature of love. They "posited that primate infants develop an emotional attachment to their primary caregivers to protect them from danger and that human infant behavior is also regulated by this emotional strategy. It helps them to build relationships with friends, partners and, later, with their own infants."

This proposition is of relevance not only for humans, but for other social animals as well. The human capacity for attachment, encompassing pair-bonds, parent-child bonds, and peer friendships, is an integrated neural system that has reused and repurposed the basic mammalian attachment capacity developed over millions of years of evolution.

For this reason, much of the neurobiological infrastructure required to support bonding behaviors is thought to be shared across social species. This is why neuroscientists assert the relevance of animal models (eg. rats, prairie voles, sheep and other primates) for generating information about the biology of human bonding. However, while animal models illuminate general principles of mammalian attachment, their neural and behavioral mechanisms cannot be assumed to operate identically in humans. For example, although humans are often classed as a broadly monogamous species, studies in comparative anthropology have shown large differences in the degree of monogamy, depending on local conditions (e.g. conditions influencing the ease with which food can be obtained, with extreme food scarcity favoring monogamy). These studies of sexual dimorphism in mating behavior suggest that, at times, what might be viewed as neurobiologically engrained differences can be overridden by, for example, varying ecological conditions.

Parental roles

Sexual dimorphism in bonding is thought to reflect different selective pressures on males and females regarding reproductive success in the ancestral environment of evolution. Due to their fundamental role in childbearing and nursing, female bonding mechanisms have a strong initial bias toward parent-infant attachment (OT-driven). However, the role of males in pair bonding and parenting is a complex one, especially in humans. As one neuroscientist states:

...pair bonds in humans, as well as in other mammalian species, are regularly associated with … the bi-parental care of young. The co-occurrence of these behaviors in pair-bonded individuals makes sense when viewed through the lens of evolutionary theory, which suggests, in part, that pair bonding became adaptive under conditions in which additional parental investment was required to ensure the successful rearing of young. Indeed, the same selection pressures that necessitated the presence of both parents for offspring survival would likely facilitate the formation of a partnership between mates and mechanisms through which to maintain this partnership (e.g., mate-guarding).

Stress response

Seen from an evolutionary perspective, stress is important because the ancestral environment contained numerous sources of threat (for example, predators). Stress responses govern how animals, including humans, respond to these sources of threat. The role of females in this context would have been constrained by pregnancies, nursing and the need to tend to offspring in dangerous situations. Males, on the other hand, would have been in a somewhat better position to engage in either "flight or fight", a phrase typically used to describe threat response options.

Neuroscientists have found evidence that males and females deploy somewhat different neurobiological systems when responding to stress. One study of rats, for example, finds that stress can strengthen social bonds in males while inhibiting them in females, thereby indicating dimorphic stress-attachment regulatory systems in the brain. Another study of artificially induced stress in laboratory rats showed sexual dimorphism in the production of molecules that promote more proactive or aggressive responses to stress — males produced such molecules, but females showed no such chemical response.

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