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Cute aggression

Desire to treat cute things aggressively

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Terminology

Social psychologist Oriana Aragón and colleagues defined the phenomenon of cute aggression in their published research paper in 2015. They also referred to these experiences with the alternative term "playful aggression", defining it as follows:

Playful aggression is in reference to the expressions that people show sometimes when interacting with babies. Sometimes we say things and appear to be more angry than happy, even though we are happy. For example some people grit their teeth, clench their hands, pinch cheeks, or say things like "I want to eat you up!" It would be difficult to ask about every possible behaviour of playful aggression, so we ask generally about things of this kind—calling them playful aggressions.

In other languages

The concept of cute aggression is reflected in various terms across many languages. The word gigil is used in English and derives from the Tagalog language word for cute aggression. The word geram in Malay is also polysemous, with meanings associated with expressing a love-hate anger toward something cute, evoking urges to squeeze it affectionately, and describes a feeling of dissatisfaction too. The expression man khiaao (มัน-เขี้ยว) in Thai means that an individual wants to "eat them up" as they are "so cute", often in relation to people or animals. The verb man directly translates "to enjoy", and khiaao translates to "fang" or "canine". The Chamorro language contains the term ma'goddai. This describes the strong feelings one gets when admiring someone's pleasantly chubby appearance, causing an urge to pinch, squeeze, or smother the person in kisses.

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