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Third culture kid

Person raised in a culture other than that of their parents

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In the expression "third culture kid", the first culture is the one in which the parents grew up; the second culture refers to the one in which the family currently resides; and the third culture is the fusion of these, the one to which the child will identify the most.

TCKs are often exposed to a second (or third, fourth, etc.) language while living in their host culture, being physically exposed to the environment where the native language is used in practical aspects of life. "TCKs learn some languages in schools abroad and some in their homes or in the marketplaces of a foreign land. ... Some pick up languages from the nannies in the home or from playmates in the neighborhood". This language immersion is why TCKs are often bilingual, and sometimes even multilingual.

Origins

The term third culture kid was first coined by Michigan State University professor Ruth Useem in the 1960s, who used it to describe the children of American citizens working abroad. Ruth Useem had previously introduced the concept of a "third culture" with her husband John Useem, who was a sociology professor at MSU, following their second year-long visit to India. They travelled to India with their three children.

Useem et al. (1963) depicted individuals who had undergone such an experience as having distinct standards of interpersonal behavior, work-related norms, codes of lifestyle and perspectives, and communication. This creates a new cultural group that does not fall into their home or host culture, but rather share a culture. The initial participants in this third culture were Indian and American professionals. Later, Ruth Useem took an interest in the children and how their experiences were shaped by life abroad. In 1993 she wrote:

In summarizing that which we had observed in our cross-cultural encounters, we began to use the term "third culture" as a generic term to cover the styles of life created, shared, and learned by persons who are in the process of relating their societies, or sections thereof, to each other. The term "Third Culture Kids" or TCKs was coined to refer to the children who accompany their parents into another society.

— Ruth Hill Useem

In 1984, author, researcher and former missionary kid (MK) Norma McCaig suggested the closely related concept global nomad, in order to take into account that the child's situation was as a result of a parent or parents' career or life choice(s).

Kay Branaman Eakin, the former education counselor for the United States Department of State, worked with American families returning to the United States after having lived abroad. She described a TCK as "someone who, as a child, has spent a significant period of time in one or more culture(s) other than his or her own, thus integrating elements of those cultures and their own birth culture, into a third culture."

David C. Pollock and Ruth Van Reken pioneered the TCK profile with the publishing of their book, Third Culture Kids: The Experience of Growing Up Among Worlds (first edition 1999), which brought to light the emotional and psychological realities that come with the TCK journey, often resulting in feelings of rootlessness and grief but also an increased confidence and ability to interact with many cultures. Both Pollock and Van Reken had personal experiences in the missionary community, Van Reken had been a MK herself in Nigeria. Their definition of what it means to be a TCK is widely referenced: "[A] person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents' culture. The TCK builds relationships to all of the cultures, while not having full ownership in any. Although elements from each culture are assimilated into the TCK's life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of the same background." Through interviews and personal writings, this seminal work explored the challenges and benefits that TCKs encounter. Later editions widened the net to discuss the experiences of CCKs (cross-cultural kids) who may be immigrants, international adoptees or the children of biracial or bicultural parents.

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